To this day you got through every challenge you have been faced with. You will have learnt great lessons in the process, if you’re still repeating the same patterns, then you are purposely making ego based bad decisions. (Often to please or impress others, how’s that working out for you?) Practise tuning in to and acting on your gut instinct. If it feels uncomfortable, then it’s not the right thing to do.
Drop the blame and victim mentality, be accountable and take responsibility for your actions. Take action, if it appears overwhelming, reverse engineer – envisage your goal and work backwards. Chunk down the journey, take baby steps, be flexible and open to change, you may be re directed. Don’t be hard on yourself!
The moment you make a decision, the universe works in your favour and things will be easy if you are coming from your heart and soul. Remember the universe rewards you when you love and better yourself, giving service to others in some form or fashion.
Delays and setbacks are protecting you. It might not be the right time just yet, synchronicity is at play and other people, places, situations are all part of the equation. Remain patient, surrender, trust and allow. Be open to receiving better than you could ever have imagined. Be grateful for every little thing in your life right now, including the lessons you’re learning.
If life doesn’t seem fair right now, (life can be bliss even in a plandemic), ask yourself, what is this issue/problem teaching me, what do I need to change? Who do I need to forgive, do I need to forgive myself? The greatest lesson humanity is learning right now is to let go of fear and to trust.
Life becomes so much fun and flows with ease when you abolish drama and negativity, especially other people’s drama and negativity, many thrive on it! Living in a state of bliss and peace is so empowering and really easy to do once you become your own master. I feel like the High Priestess in the Tarot deck these days.
Living consciously and in the present, heightens your senses. You start to feel energy, good and bad. Yes, unfortunately dark third dimensional energy from people around you will try and sneak in to wreak havoc with your tranquility. Negativity breeds negativity. But hold strong, when you live with purpose, in peace and bliss, your spirit guides will step in to protect you if you ask, always ask, you have self will and they can not intervene without your permission.
I know for certain I am divinely protected, I always have been, I just haven’t always realised this. Years of chaos and trauma was necessary to wake me up to finally surrender as I kicked, screamed put up resistance, determined to control my situations with my limiting belief that only I could make things happen.
My spirit guides have always sent me messages and signs, it’s only these last 3 years I began to really listen and trust in them.
Recently, I’ve had a strong feeling of an energy ‘spying’ on me, possibly here on my site. Not the same as someone viewing my site out of interest and for help, but an energy of lower vibration, staking me out. Perhaps someone feeling threatened or jealous.
Signs and messages come in all shapes and forms. Feathers, butterflies, over hearing someone speak of something that is relevant to you, bill boards, car registration plates, songs.
Experiencing this ‘spying’ energy from time to time, I was receiving signs as confirmation. In the supermarket recently, this song below, Private Eyes was playing in the background …….. hmmmm?!! Then Rockwell, “It always feels like somebody’s watching me”, remember that one? You know when you receive a sign, you feel it in your heart and gut, not in your head/mind. There is no such thing as coincidence!
It’s not paranoia, because I don’t really care, in-fact, I find it comical, hence writing a little blog about it, they may read it! I like to do random things, makes life more interesting.
If ever you experience this form of psychic attack, just send it back, RETURN TO SENDER!! If you work with energy you will need to protect yourself. A simple powerful protection method is visualising yourself in a shield of mirrors. Around you, above and below you, the mirrors facing out – so anything negative will reflect right back to whoever sent it.
Practise feeling in alignment. Find time to sit quietly and tune in, centre yourself and ask, “how am I feeling right now?” Refuse to allow anything to bring you down below a certain level of being. I have an imaginary line and I have to be on it or above it. If a situation or person brings me below this line, I address and correct it.
Sometimes, it’s a lesson, or a challenge to help you grow, evolve, question it, learn from it but never stay there. If something isn’t good for you, you will feel it lower your energetic frequency, you will feel off balance, out of sorts, unaligned with your soul.
Set your boundaries and correct it, become conscious and present again.Breathe and say ‘NEXT’
We waste so much precious time holding on to what is hurting us, believing it can be no other way. Fear of the unknown, keeping us stuck, when we could be liberating ourselves and opening the doors to extreme peace, real love and happiness. Toxicity can be in any shape or form and be so habitual that the very thought of being free is incomprehensible.
Repeating the same patterns over and over, the universe will constantly slap you in the face with more trauma and loss. Feeling a victim, blaming outside influences, but you are the one feeding it, allowing it to happen, you are inviting it, you are creating and attracting it over and over again, until you shift that victim mentality mindset.
Many years ago, travelling to a marketing event, a colleague I was working with, interrupted my old story of hurts, asking, “Why do you choose to be a victim?” I wanted to punch her in the face! I never saw myself as a victim but she made me see how I was attracting more of what I didn’t want and could simply make different choices.
The moment you find self respect and decide to release yourself from karmic, toxic relationships in love, career, finances, that no longer serve your highest good, the universe, (whether you believe it or not), pulls out all the stops to honour and reward you; presenting you with the greatest, often miraculous opportunities, you could ever have believed possible.
Life celebrates you for taking a leap of faith and supports you all the way. You have to trust there is a much bigger force at work here …….
What if? What if it’s amazing, the best action you ever took?
Step into the unknown, surrender, it’s magical, you’ll be shocked at who is actually there for you, unconditionally, no matter what you have to reveal! Bare your soul, be vulnerable, be open to receiving whatever good comes your way and be grateful for every interaction, moving you forward step by step.
Right now, stop being a prisoner to fear, there is an amazing life to be lived, the worse thing that can happen is you hear a ‘No’ and what if you are pleasantly surprised and get so much more than you expected?
RudyardKipling – 1865-1936
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master; If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with triumph and disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to broken, And stoop and build ’em up with wornout tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on”;
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with kings—nor lose the common touch; If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run— Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
We have free will but whatever your destiny is, it will happen, no matter how long you choose to remain stuck in a toxic situation, you’ll just waste time getting there and be presented with a worse situation, then another and another, until you get the message to respect yourself, take action and move on to something beautiful that you deserve.
How many years have you struggled with fear, self doubt, obeying the system, being attacked from all sides? Finances, career, relationships?
Surrendering and letting go of the fear, the persistence, burning yourself out – to simply trusting and allowing, that whatever created us, does have our back and will provide for us – does work!!
WHOAAA, scary stuff! It means stepping out of your comfort zone, eliminating old patterns and an outdated belief system, which you were programmed with, (it wasn’t all your fault). It’s challenging, adventurous, and so very empowering……. it also brings you peace!
I double dare you to let go of that, which is no longer making you happy or serving your highest good!
When I look back at the stress and fear I have put myself through, believing I was doing ‘the right thing‘, I could have just let it go! It took me many years, with nothing more to lose, to take this leap of faith and put my trust into something that I couldn’t physically see, touch, hear, smell, taste.
The instant I made this decision to fully trust and allow, the most incredible events began to happen. Financial abundance came in from areas I never expected, I effortlessly won trips all over the world, with a company I was promoting and travelled to places I never thought I would visit. I continue to go with the flow and let life lead me, but it must give me joy. Joy is my discernment gauge, anything less I question. Everything I need is provided for me in some form or fashion. More than often, better than expected.
I feel I was being prepared for what is happening in the world today, ready to help others deal with similar life challenges. With the whole globe in fear and uncertainty, I’ve sailed through 2020 to this present day, with a chilled, carefree relaxed attitude. I even attracted a great group of likeminded people into my life, together, rebelling against all restrictions, having a great time!
Early morning, we would meet up, shoes off, to ground ourselves, (grounding is great for inflammation and releasing stagnant energy), a few warm up stretching exercises, sprinting, ending with a boogie, showing passers-by we have no fear and neither do we care about the Bogey V!
Twelve of us invaded a restaurant, each and everyone of us exempt from the mask wearing, and not explaining ourselves or showing justification either. Hugging as we greeted each other. The manager almost had a heart attack, (we gave him a big tip). Other diners watched, some giggling, they knew it was all ridiculous. Anyone so frightened of the Bogey V, wouldn’t have been in a restaurant.
We had parties at each other’s houses, sneaking home in the early hours. One of our friends, a professional singer, brought her mic and speaker. Belting out, “Young Hearts, Run Free” and many more 70s/80s/90s dance hits. No complaints from neighbours.
We would go cycling, even my 80 year old mum got on a bike, the first time since she was fourteen. After, we would all pile into another friend’s house for a game of table tennis.
Never once did we attract anything negative to stop us having fun. We weren’t put on this earth to suffer! When you live at a frequency of joy, love and laughter you attract more joy, love and laughter into your life. And the Bogey V can’t touch you!
It serves no purpose to carry remorse or regret, life lessons need to be learnt and some of us need a slap in the face, because we keep doing, what we believe to be ‘the right thing‘. Waking up, to no longer tolerating being manipulated or taken advantage of, it all happens in divine timing.
It’s a choice, just a choice to stop giving your power away to fear, and control from those who don’t have your best interests at heart.
Forget all the expensive life changing courses – no matter what your circumstances, just make a choice to be happy and never look back. If anyone around you doesn’t like this positive change in you, then you don’t need them in your life, let them go too. The universe abhors a vacuum, that space will be filled with something/someone better, matching your new frequency.
Many people are suffering with anxiety and fear due to our present global circumstances. Much of this fear mongering and false narrative is coming from the mainstream media. Unless you do your research, the future looks very glum as governments constantly move the goalposts on travel and other restrictions, making our lives a misery – if you let them!
Do you know FEAR is an emotion specifically created to keep us under control – when you let go of fear, life becomes amazing and you stop attracting the bad stuff. I’ve had first hand experience of this and it works. We are magnets and we draw to us experiences to match our thoughts and feelings, so imagine what is happening if you’re in a state of fear most of the time?
Switch off the TV!!
Early 2020, I went to the top and started following everything I could that was being censored, it was fascinating, (ask yourself why, what do they not want us to know?) A trip to Mexico in February 2020, attending the Anarchapulco event, opened my eyes to what goes on behind the scenes. How the world’s corruption is mainly lead and organised by world leaders we trusted. I also learned of the coming agenda as the Planned Emic took hold throughout the world.