healing

Still Hanging Onto A Toxic Relationship?

Let that $#*! go!!

We waste so much precious time holding on to what is hurting us, believing it can be no other way. Fear of the unknown, keeping us stuck, when we could be liberating ourselves and opening the doors to extreme peace, real love and happiness. Toxicity can be in any shape or form and be so habitual that the very thought of being free is incomprehensible.

Repeating the same patterns over and over, the universe will constantly slap you in the face with more trauma and loss. Feeling a victim, blaming outside influences, but you are the one feeding it, allowing it to happen, you are inviting it, you are creating and attracting it over and over again, until you shift that victim mentality mindset.

Many years ago, travelling to a marketing event, a colleague I was working with, interrupted my old story of hurts, asking, “Why do you choose to be a victim?” I wanted to punch her in the face! I never saw myself as a victim but she made me see how I was attracting more of what I didn’t want and could simply make different choices.

The moment you find self respect and decide to release yourself from karmic, toxic relationships in love, career, finances, that no longer serve your highest good, the universe, (whether you believe it or not), pulls out all the stops to honour and reward you; presenting you with the greatest, often miraculous opportunities, you could ever have believed possible.

Life celebrates you for taking a leap of faith and supports you all the way. You have to trust there is a much bigger force at work here …….

What if? What if it’s amazing, the best action you ever took?

Step into the unknown, surrender, it’s magical, you’ll be shocked at who is actually there for you, unconditionally, no matter what you have to reveal! Bare your soul, be vulnerable, be open to receiving whatever good comes your way and be grateful for every interaction, moving you forward step by step.

Right now, stop being a prisoner to fear, there is an amazing life to be lived, the worse thing that can happen is you hear a ‘No’ and what if you are pleasantly surprised and get so much more than you expected?

If—

Rudyard Kipling – 1865-1936

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
   If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
   And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
   Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
   And stoop and build ’em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
   And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
   And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
   To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
   Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on”;

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
   Or walk with kings—nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
   If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run—
   Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

We have free will but whatever your destiny is, it will happen, no matter how long you choose to remain stuck in a toxic situation, you’ll just waste time getting there and be presented with a worse situation, then another and another, until you get the message to respect yourself, take action and move on to something beautiful that you deserve.

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